Q: Asalamualikum ! My Question is I Like a girl from past two years of time . She also Like me very much we both convinced with each other, But due to my & her family Problems we have not moved to further option for Nikaha.
My problem is I need some time , but in her family they are dying to do her marriage . Last week , I got informed by girl that her marriage is fixed with another boy . by the time I could do for her , her parents did marriage with another boy . We have talk on phone she is denying the marriage what the parents has done . She asked me & promise that she will give divorce to him, & again she wants to marry with me. Now , no matter if she gave divorce to him am ready to marry her. Lastly I just fearing that my parents will accept her or not ? & I want to know if this Condition came how to face . whether I should approached to Court or simply Consult with mufti or Imam saheb . She said diffenetely she is going to give divorce to her husband . & she will marry me. am also ready to do ! We both like each other !
Please All Of You Gave me a Proper Solution on behalf of me. Hope to See reference s from All.
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A: وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
If she is married to another person, it is not fair that you assist her attaining a divorce. To assist in such a breakup or even contribute to it would constitute a sin.
Although there are methods of attaining a divorce for a woman, I find no need for you to be part of this. I do not see evidence of direct abuse, etc. I just sense some mental game playing. I think you should stay away from such a person/family.
Stay away from her and her family, get help from your parents to assit in getting you a good wife.
Allah Certainly Knows Best