Q: Salam, Whats the Gift of Family? What makes family so special?
The reason why im asking this is becuase My family who are good to eachother but not happy with eachother and dont like to be together they are very stubborn to eachother and revenge on one another whats the reason and purpose of this? why? please tell me what we as a family should know before its to late, we only come together to mourn the dead and thats it other then that you wont see us all together Happy like other Families. May Allah Grant you everything thats In your Heart.Ameen.
Time: Wednesday April 27, 2011 at 4:36 pm
Answer: (Response by Br Yassir Butt. (May Allah (SWT) bless him and protect him and his family, Ameen.)
Allah says in the Quran
وجعلنا بعضكم لبعض فتنة اتصبرون وكان ربك بصيرا
And we have made each one of you as a test for the other individual so have steadfastness and perseverance and know Allah is watching over you
Any family who does not obey Allah truly will have discord it happens to all families, remember the story of Yusuf his brothers dumped him and claimed he was killed by he wolf!
At least your family has not dumped anyone yet? Have they?
So, forgive and make dua and pray Fajar salaat on time and if you are already praying it on time don’t sleep after it and do zikr of Allah and you will see tranquility eventually. Know in your heart that Allah is the one who turns the hearts establish a strong relationship with him like Yusufs father Yaqoob allay he salaam as he said in the Quran
انما أشكو بثي و حزني الى الله والتعلم من الله ما لا تعلمون
I only put forth my troubles and sadness in front of Allah and know in my heart from him and his mercy what you know not