i did my istakhara few days ago…. the situation on the guy is very hard and uneasy to be accepted by my family and many other. Regardless my heart and gut feeling tell me he is very pious n honest guy.
I did my istakhara.. i saw *a family friend* (my shaikh’s daughter) i am at her house and Saw 3 dolphins (FISH) and they belong to me… in my dream… the dolphines came running towards me…
Could you plz interpret this?
may Allah give you jazaa.ee kheir..
ma as salama..
Time: Sunday November 14, 2010 at 4:36 pm
A: Do not bring anyone into your family nor go into anyone’s family when resistance exists. In the long run, this causes a greater set of unwanted problems. ‘Pious and honest guys’ do not marry woman when their (males) parents or the parents of the female are saying no. ‘Pious guys’ move on and depend on Allah (swt.)
I do agree that he may be religious and that both of you want to do the correct thing, however, in order to do the correct thing, a correct method must also be instituted as part of the decision making process. You need to discuss this matter with your parents in a fair and rational manner. All resonings must be presented in a non-emotional manner and a good hearing must be given to each party.
The sheiks family is good. Allah (swt) has blessed them in many ways. Be ready for some uphill battles in your life. Deal with these battles in a good manner so that you may attain the greatest assistance from Allah (swt.)
Allah Certainly Knows Best.