take two! (not always a good act!)

Q:
Assamualikum,

I have a problem to share,

I have married to a girl who is a new muslim.

with my mother and father’s knowledge but no permission i did nikah with her.And now it is been one year my relatives dont know about my Nikah.

Now i want to declare the same to my relatives.

I want to know can i do a new Nikah or any other sort of adjustment to declare to my relatives and friends.

I am awaiting you respose.

Thanks

jazakallah Khair

Time: Saturday December 26, 2009 at 3:00 am

A:

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

Marriage is not a joke. Nikah goes through between those you are permitted to marry. A male need not get approval from his parents, even though we agree that it is best to do so.

To remove aspects of allegation or doubt, you can reaffirm your nikah by redoing it in the presence of your family, etc.  Based on the manner in which you have stated your case, reaffirming your nikah would function in your best interest.

Allah Certainly Knows Best.

p.s. Next time reflect upon matters that have in them the possibility of ruining your reputation, or the reputation of those around you. Matters are not merely only limited to aspects pertaining to halal (permissible.) Matters go deeper, and we must understand this form the onset, so as to reduce our personal anxieties, etc.

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